Media and Gender Stereotyping

This week’s article summary is What Media Teach Kids About Gender Can Have Lasting Effects.

When Rosetta Lee first came to Trinity two years ago, I recall her talked about how media geared for kids often employs extreme stereotypes in plot lines, and while the ultimate message in an episode might be about positive values like caring, sharing, friendship, etc., it’s the extreme stereotypes that most often get imprinted on kids.

In particular, gender stereotyping remains rampant in Hollywood.

There has been some progress in the past few years with more female leads, directors, and screenwriters (in 2010 Kathryn Bigelow was first female to win the Oscar for best director for The Hurt Locker and more recently Wonder Woman was an international blockbuster), yet we all need to be ever vigilant in helping our impressionable elementary kids avoid the pernicious effects of societal stereotyping too often reinforced in movies and TV shows.

Perhaps you observed our students a few months ago when Ainissa Ramirez spoke at Trinity and captivated our kids. Yes, they were inspired by her science message, but she also was a positive, strong role model for our female students and students of color.

While movies like Wonder Woman (female protagonist) and Black Panther (black protagonist) are a beginning, we have a ways to go before they are the norm rather than the exception from Hollywood.

Joe

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Gender stereotypes are messing with your kid.

It's not just one movie. It's not just one TV show. It's constant exposure to the same dated concepts in the media over and over, starting before preschool and lasting a lifetime -- concepts like: boys are smarter than girls, certain jobs are best for men and others for women, and even that girls are responsible for their own sexual assaults.

According to a recent report, gender stereotypes in movies and on TV shows are more than persistent: they're incredibly effective at teaching kids what the culture expects of boys and girls.

Think of preschoolers who are just beginning to identify as boys or girls. The characters they see on TV and in movies often have an obvious masculine or feminine appearance, such as a superhero's big muscles or a princess' long hair. These characteristics also are often associated with specific traits -- for example, being strong and brave or fearful and meek.

Fast-forward to the tween and teen years, when characters begin to wrestle with relationships, sex, and job prospects. That "strong and brave" superhero becomes aggressive and hostile. That "fearful and meek" princess become submissive and weak.

These oversimplified characterizations play out in many ways over and over. According to the report, a lifetime of viewing stereotypical media becomes so ingrained it can ultimately affect kids' career choices, self-worth, relationships, and ability to achieve their full potential.

While there are movies and TV shows that defy gender stereotypes -- and Hollywood is making some progress on this front -- you're not going to be able to prevent your kids from seeing everything that sends the wrong message. And your kids probably like a lot of media that reinforces stereotypes.

The most powerful messages kids absorb are from you—parents and teachers. When you actively role-model gender equality, speak out against stereotypes, and challenge outdated ideas, kids will hear that loud and clear.

Below are some age-based strategies -- from toddlerhood to the teen years -- to reach kids at the exact moment they need to hear them.

Age 2-6

 

At this age, kids:

·         Learn their gender identities

·         Learn stereotypes about activities, traits, toys, and skills associated with each gender

·         Begin gender-typed play (girls "clean the kitchen," boys "mow the lawn")

·         Need to hear your input in specific, not abstract, terms

What you can do:

• Point out people from real life or TV that show there's more than one way to "do" gender. Try a show such as Doc McStuffins and say, "I notice that Doc's mom works full-time to support the family and that her dad stays home and takes care of the kids."
• Comment positively on shows that equally value boys and girls. Watch Odd Squad together and say, "Otto and Olive are equal partners and rely on each other to solve cases."
• Find shows that aren't hyperpink or super-blue. Or, at least, balance out your kid's preferences with shows such as Julie's Greenroom, which uses a variety of hues, both on the stage sets and in the characters. The show also exposes some of the technical aspects of stage production, which teaches kids that shows are created by people and are only limited by imagination.

Age 7-10

At this age, kids:

• Attribute certain qualities to men and women -- for example, that women are more emotional and affectionate and men are more ambitious and aggressive
• Associate specific occupations and academic subjects with each gender
• Self-segregate based on gender -- boys want to play with boys, and girls want to play with girls
• Want some choice over what they watch but still respect parents' input

What you can do:

• Recognize characters who defy gender stereotypes. Check out a movie such as Big Hero 6 and say, "It's OK to show when you're sad -- and boys shouldn't be embarrassed to cry."
• Praise characters who are instrumental to the storyline for what they do versus what they look like. Stream Project Mc2 on Netflix and say, "For the girls on Mc2, being good at math and science are more important than their appearance."
• Seek out movies and shows with non-stereotyped characters -- for example, female characters with realistic body types and non-aggressive male characters. Try a show such as Andi Mack where the characters wrestle with peer pressure to look and act a certain way to fit in.

Age 11-13:

At this age, kids:

• Feel self-conscious about physical changes and feel pressure to conform to cultural gender norms
• Are intolerant of cross-gender mannerisms and behaviors
• Are concerned about dating potential
• Want to pick their own shows -- and they're often shows intended for older kids
• Are more interested in peers than parents

What you can do:

• Emphasize that worth and happiness don't come from appearance (especially important for female characters) or from physical strength (especially important for male characters). Watch a movie such as Arrival and remark on the lead character being a female professor. Or try Billy Elliot, about an Irish boy who wants to be a dancer despite his father's objections. Ask: "How do these characters go against what society expects of them?"
• Comment positively on healthy, supportive, and fulfilling cross-gender friendships and relationships. Try a movie such as Bridge to Terabithia (or read the book), which features an equal friendship between the boy and girl main characters. Discuss what makes them such good friends and what each one teaches the other.
• Talk about how transgender characters in movies and on TV are often the target of bullying. Try a show such as I Am Jazz about a transgender teen. Ask: "How did you feel when Jazz was bullied. If you knew her, would you defend her?"

Age 14-17

At this age, kids:

• Mix with other genders and become more flexible about stereotypes
• Become preoccupied with their future careers, as well as appearance
• Want to learn gender-based expectations for how to behave in romantic and sexual situations
• Choose what they want to watch and are willing to discuss abstract ideas (and don't want to be lectured to)

What you can do:

• Look for shows that feature boys and men expressing their emotions in constructive ways, having diverse interests (other than only sex), and being kind or friendly to non-heterosexual characters.
• Check out This Is Us and point out how the fathers are shown as nurturing and thoughtful. Or watch The King's Speech, about King George the VI, who must reveal his biggest vulnerability. Ask, "Can a man, or a boy, be both strong and sensitive?"
• Point out when female characters voice their own needs. Watch an ensemble show such as Brooklyn Nine-Nine and note how the female characters don't defer to the men.
• Find characters who have non-gender-stereotypical professional aspirations (girls who want to be scientists and boys who want to be nurses). Consider a show like Bones, which features a strong female lead in a traditionally male-dominated profession.