This week’s
article summary is We're
Teaching Grit the Wrong Way.
I have never
been a fan of Star Trek but I know
that Mr. Spock was all about reason, not emotion.
The article
below posits that teachers and parents in trying to help their students and
children develop qualities like grit, deferred gratification, and perseverance
overemphasize reason and logic and should instead utilize more emotional
motivators, including how one’s actions can help others.
I have spoken
to kids countless times about effort, short-term sacrifice for long-term gain,
and the benefits of persistence and willpower. Yet according to the article, my
words of advice perhaps have not had a positive effect on students and might
have exacerbated feelings of failure and even isolation.
Self-sacrifice
always came easy to me. I was the type of kid (and to this day as an adult) who
challenged myself to see how long I could go before breaking a $10 bill in my
wallet. At college, I, unlike many of my friends, could easily bypass a
spontaneous dorm party if I had to write a paper, study for a test, or complete
a reading assignment. As Freud believed, my super ego was well developed and
ruled over my id. For me, reason and logic were all I needed as motivators to
develop grit, willpower, and persistence. Mr. Spock would concur.
Yet as the
article below explains what works for Spock and me is not the case for all of
us. Some need other reasons and motivations for denying immediate happiness for
future benefits. Last week’s article summary spoke about how social humans are,
and for many, this is the motivator for making personal sacrifices: how one’s
behavior impacts others may be the carrot some need to develop personal habits
like grit. For me it was personal, for others it’s social.
The next time
I speak to students about the virtue of deferred gratification, I am definitely
going to move beyond how it will help
the student as an individual and include how it can positively affect others.
Motivation like inspiration needs to come from many directions to reach
everyone.
Joe
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