This week’s article summary is SEL Doesn't Need a Rebrand.
Articles like this one always make me happy that I work at the elementary level in a private, independent school: elementary — different from middle and high school — focuses on core habits and skills that aren’t controversial or polarizing. (You must be a real contrarian to argue against elementary schools developing kids' responsibility, compassion, and honesty.) Being non-public, we don’t rely on federal or state funding; those dollars typically come with strings attached.
SEL, or Social-Emotional Learning, has been part of our educational lexicon and curriculum for the past 25-30 years. Replacing the more general Character Development (I taught a Values Clarification elective to 6th graders in the 1990s), SEL has provided more specificity of the inter/intrapersonal skills and habits teachers have always helped develop in their students: self-awareness, self-management, social awareness, relationship skills, responsible decision-making, executive function.
At admissions open houses, I explain to prospective parents that Trinity shapes and develops our students’ academic and character foundation. Specifically, under character development, I tell parents that we strive to form in children a strong, confident sense of self (intrapersonal skills) and sincere care and concern for others (interpersonal skills) as well as study and organizational skills. I explain that at Trinity character development is integrated in everything we do, not a stand-alone activity. We want our children not only to be successful in academics but, as our mission states, 'responsible, productive, and compassionate member(s) of Trinity and the greater community.'
From as macro standpoint, it’s frustrating to me that in these polarized political times, SEL in schools has become so controversial. Who would have thought it’s being ‘woke’ to teach kids to think with multiple perspectives, to assume good intentions of others, and to learn that throughout history humans have perpetrated horrible things to others.
Regardless of the external noise, Trinity continues to stay true to its mission of whole child development and has always made a student character development an integral part of how we teach.
Joe
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The rebranding of social-emotional learning to avoid controversy for being branded as “woke” ideology highlights a real challenge in education today: Political pushback at the local, state, and federal levels has made some educators feel they must camouflage their work, including renaming SEL programs or softening the language.
Despite these challenges, SEL is not a passing fad or a political football. It’s about advancing the science, practice, and policy that help schools and students thrive. SEL has been a fundamental component of a high-quality education that is as essential as reading, writing, math, social studies, and science. The question is not whether we should teach students SEL but whether we have the resolve to define it with clarity, strengthen its evidence base, and defend its value.
SEL equips students with the knowledge and skills to understand and manage emotions, make responsible decisions, build healthy relationships, and navigate challenges. These outcomes are the foundation of academic achievement, a positive school climate, and lifelong success.
Decades of evidence show that the strength of our relationships is a powerful predictor of children’s well-being and lifelong success. Unfortunately, technology, social media, and cultural pressures often pull students toward shallow interactions and endless social comparisons.
At the same time, children (and adults) are sent messages to suppress, deny, or ignore their feelings from every corner of society—families, schools, workplaces, news and entertainment media—that equate emotional expression with weakness or instability. From “toughen up” at home to “be professional” at work. The result? Increased conflict with others, higher stress levels, weaker relationships, disengagement in learning, and too often, hopelessness.
SEL works, but positive impact requires thoughtful design; alignment with students cognitive, social, and emotional development; and sustained, high-quality implementation.
Imagine walking into a school where students can name and manage their emotions, teachers model calm under pressure, conflicts are addressed constructively, and learning feels rigorous and civilized. This isn’t fantasy; it’s what schools look like when SEL is woven into the fabric of teaching and learning.
So why the backlash? Much of it stems from SEL having been mischaracterized by political advocacy groups and certain policymakers as ideology or indoctrination—whether in the form of critical race theory, gender and sexuality politics, or values training—rather than a science-backed approach to child development. Even some educators struggle to define it clearly. Without precise definitions about what it is and its value, SEL remains vulnerable to distortion.
The ability to recognize, understand, label, express, and regulate emotions—in short, emotional intelligence—provides both the science and structure for this essential work. But emotion regulation is often one of the most misunderstood constructs. Too often, people think it means suppressing or denying your and others’ emotions or striving for constant positivity. In reality, it is the capacity to draw on strategies like seeing a difficult situation from a different or more helpful perspective, calming the body, or seeking support to manage emotions wisely to improve relationships, well-being, and goal attainment. Without this clear, science-based definition, schools risk confusing emotion regulation with compliance or equating it with suppression. With clarity, we give students and educators alike a powerful, humane skill set for navigating life inside and beyond the school building.